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Mandatory Intro

Oh, the name itself is so depressing. Parajayangal (Failures). This is a space I created to write down my failures. As we humans have the idea to only show our success, I chose to expose my vulnerable side. The decision came after long battles with the brain.

I heard numerous comments from people, saying how they wish to have my life, how they envy it, the money, travel, family, etc. I sometimes wonder what the reason is for such thoughts. It feels like Aadu Jeevitham (Goat Days) by Benyamin. I never share my worries. So people now have the wrong idea of me because they only see the brighter side. 

Everything I write is fact. If there are interpretations, I would write those separately. My side would be obviously biassed towards me, as it's me who is writing them. The facts could shatter the realities that people have about me, which is now inevitable. This would also give me a space to reflect on the events and further decide my life in a more logical way. After all, without failure, where is the beauty of success?

The stories that I write are not imaginary. Everything is as real as the reality you live in.

Note: English is not my first language. You might find numerous spelling and grammar mistakes in this blog. 

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