Sometimes I wonder about the advice of other people. People who have the faintest idea of the context and the mental situation will be giving advice as if they are the subject matter experts. I want your opinion on the following scenario: I don't want an opinion if you've never had a partner for more than 3 years. I would be gender neutral, lol. Imagine you have a partner and a kid, and you have been with the person for more than 3 years. This is an in-person relationship, not a long-distance one. One fine day, a person who is of your gender, a friend whom your partner met few months ago, who is in their start of youth like their 20's came to the house which you pay the bills. And then start lecturing about what how you should be to your patner, explains how to be a parent to the kid. Amid all this chaos, your patner is supporting the advisor. Also the advisor is not a mental health professional! From that day on, your partner does not wan...